We must always be open to learn. Even when we think we've "arrived" we still haven't. I've been told that I'm too hard on men and people in general but that's not so. I think I didn't really know the level of my compassion for others. I'm learning to display the truth of who I am, give advice when asked or led by the Spirit, and always pray. But when it comes to my mate, we have to be on the same page, not perfect, but living on purpose and willing and continuing to learn and grow.