Love is relative to one's experience. You should open your mind more, and that doesn't mean go against the word or what you believe. I study people as a hobby LOL...and one thing I've learned it that each has his/her own experience. It's not safe to assume anything and it's definitely not safe to put people in a box especially when you don't know them. Who knows if you took the time to get to know a lady, without letting your past experiences be at the forefront, you may find that at the core you both are more alike than different.